On crying...

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Sorry I haven't uploaded any drawings or anything of that nature lately (I blame school), but I wanted to take a moment and address a certain question, and that is, why does society frown upon crying so much? Crying is simply a physical expression of sadness, just like smiling is a physical expression of happiness and gasping is a physical expression of being shocked or surprised, so why is it that people make such a big deal when other people cry? I especially hate it when people respond to someone crying by saying "crying won't solve the problem." Even if it doesn't solve the problem, isn't it better to let someone express and possible purge themselves of the emotion that's giving them so much stress? Or should we just bottle up all our feelings like a soulless society that just acts happy all the time? We're human beings; we experience a great range of emotions on a day to day basis, so isn't it better to express them so that we can be more open with each other as individuals? Or have we just separated so much from each other that we're just robots expected to keep happy facades all the time and never tell anyone else what's on our minds? But then at the same time, when my friends and I are watching a sad movie or a movie with a sad part and someone doesn't cry, someone else usually responds with "YOU HAVE NO SOUL!" or something along the lines of that; why is it that people are expected to cry in response to things that happen to FICTIONAL CHARACTERS and not events that happen in real life? Shouldn't it be the other way around? 

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MitsukiChan313's avatar
I (most of the time) feel better after I get some of it out by crying.  I don't tend to cry in front of people and am generally a happy, positive person by nature, but when I do cry it's because I bottled my emotions up too much.  The last time I cried it was because someone very important to me died and I cried alone in my dorm room.  Like I said, I personally don't like to cry in front of people, but for me it just happens sometimes.  Crying once in a while shows you are emotionally healthy; it's part of the human experience.  I personally do not have much faith in humanity these days and just screw society.  I don't care what society says, I am my own person and will remain so til the day I die.  And if society says otherwise, I just say "screw you guys, I'm going home."